Light.Shard
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Desperate times call for desperate measures...~.~;; It's VERY difficult to find a nice girl in the midwest. Most of them are Jesus freaks and already have children. The teen pregnancy rate in this county is higher than Chicago's.
So I've tried internet dating before- at least three times. Well, all of them ended in massive failure (one decided to be straight, one became a creepy stalker that would skip school just to find out if I was in the shower, and the other was a soulless drone that was only after my male roommate). Not to mention, I hardly had anything in common with ANY of them... But despite recent failures I'm willing to try again.
=P So IF anyone is interested in a fairly perverted 19 year old blonde, short, loves Pokemon, RPGs, maid/nurse costumes, cuddling, and just about anything that doesn't involve men, please respond.
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dmc3mary-is-hot
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you must be desprate if you asking people out on a forum
but i would be very tempted if i didn't already have a girlfriend, lol
i'am sure you'll find someone great for you but weather that person will be on the internet i don't know 
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Smoogles
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But lots of dating sites have forums too, it's not necessarily desperation, just an alternative to going out on the scene.
And it's dead here too, even though it's supposed to be dyke central, I'm still single. I see singledom as a permanent fixture. Only took me just over 30 years to find the first.. so the next should crop up around about 60-70 years old I reckon.
And that first part was not a hint btw. sorry.
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Frances
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Light you had me sold at fairly perverted  hehe just jokes. If I lived in the States I would for sure come and take you out. Alas I'm an Aussie and also in a lesbian deadspot. Theres a pumping male gay scene but no women anywhere, frustrating huh.
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narukoyuri
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Pokemon! Yay! Unfortunate I also live on a different continent 
Another Aussie here. Everyone I meet online seems to be at least a state away. :\
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Light.Shard
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Ah! What a heaping pile of lamesauce! ~.~;; Every girl I've ended up having the least bit of interest in wasn't in America. =P I knew I had to get out of here. Lol.
=D Well at least I could make some friends? It's kind of odd looking on the bright side when I used to be so pessimistic. Oh well, it's not like I'm wilting or anything. I'll always have my PS2 and DS to be my company.
But still, why do all of the cool ones have to live so far away? I guess I need to get my eyes repaired and learn how to fly a plane?
Nah, that won't work. I can't even drive a car. Oh well. I will find a way. Like becoming rich and famous? Hey, uglier and less talented people have done it!
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Cheeto31
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what you're looking forseems that the something.... or someone you're looking for is always right in front of you... it's wather or not you're willing to see it... them... you know.
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Vickie
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Re: what you're looking for | Cheeto31 wrote: | | seems that the something.... or someone you're looking for is always right in front of you... it's wather or not you're willing to see it... them... you know. |
In my case, I'll probably end up with one of my straight male friends. *sigh*
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Memoriae
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If I wasn't already taken at the moment, I would look you up 
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Frances
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Re: what you're looking for | Cheeto31 wrote: | | seems that the something.... or someone you're looking for is always right in front of you... it's wather or not you're willing to see it... them... you know. |
Yeah their always right in front of you, problem is their always straight lmao.
Vickie, doooooooooon't do it!!!!!!!
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Ness~
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lol heyyyy we're not ALL bad in the midwest. ;]
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hassie
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All the lovely ladies I know are in relationships and I'm not the type to try and break people up. I end up spending more time talking to other single women online than I do actually dating. Sad old life.[/b]
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dusty
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I would love to take you out on a date if I could. I live in Florida, U.S.. I work with a lot of girls but it is hard to tell if some one is into girls or not. I don't want to flat ask them because that can become weird.
I'm trying the online dating thing to. All I've gotten is someone who only wants to exchange pictures. I want more than that.
All the best luck!
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Five
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Aww, I know how that is. D: The dating scene sucks at the moment.
I totally don't know you at all, and I don't date people I don't know, but we should talk. 
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katiedid
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Well, I live in Chicago & don't drive, but if you're in town some time I'd be more than happy to take you out. Ya know, so long as you don't mind me. 
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Kaledio_Ruby
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Don't feel too bad. I live in California for god's sakes. And I work in bloody San Francisco with 5 other lesbians on my staff.... and I've been single for several years now with no prospects.
I even hosted a lesbian panel at Fanime 2008 and mentioned being single and I didn't get a single offer for a date. =/
But anyhow, it's getting harder and harder to meet women. Most people I know hook up through friends or co-workers. The online dating scene has kind of died over the last 4 years and the once widely used gay singles sites, Gay.com and Planetout.com have dried up. OMG, I'm going on about this like we're in a bloody draught! It's a lesbian famine! Ha ha ha!!
I say, keep trying whatever you think might get you there. For everytime you get turned away, just say, "Well, damn... at least I tried, right?"
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Serenity
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Lesbian dating scene? It exists? LOL Don't worry, you are not alone in your singleness.
I love anime, but have never watched pokemon before. I'll have to give it a try sometime. I've only been into anime for a few years, so most of what I've seen is the newer stuff like Beck and Melancholy of Haruhi.
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Pescean
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| Kaledio_Ruby wrote: | Don't feel too bad. I live in California for god's sakes. And I work in bloody San Francisco with 5 other lesbians on my staff.... and I've been single for several years now with no prospects.
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LOL, I relate, I relate!!!
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yuna
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everyone who's complaining about the dating scene should definitely move here - london. the only chance of not getting laid around here is if you don't want to.
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smaggot08
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Hahaha! Oh really? XD Sounds awesome.
I'm not nearly confident enough to even begin looking for someone, so I can't say whether or not finding a date is hard....<< Though a lot of girls I know here are quite...desperate. They cling to any man they can get their paws on. It's so pathetic it drives me nuts. DX (not the wanting to be with a guy thing, I'm not heterophobic. I mean when their boyfriend lies to them, cheats, cusses them out, etc, and they refuse to break up with them because omg they are so sweet.)
Hmmm. ~_~ Yeah. There are probably plenty of lesbians who lack some serious self-confidence (for no good reason) and so do not put themselves out there....
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Kaledio_Ruby
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| Quote: | | Hmmm. ~_~ Yeah. There are probably plenty of lesbians who lack some serious self-confidence (for no good reason) and so do not put themselves out there.... |
I can see why there are issues with self confidence and being affirmative. Honestly, for almost everyone in the GLBT community, before we had the confidence to tell people that we're gay or lesbian or whatever, we had to have the confidence to tell ourselves. Overcoming boundaries like that would certainly diminish one's own self-confidence. I find myself explaining to people all the time that my "dating pool" is smaller than theirs. It's a wading pool and for years, I had to convince myself that it was okay to be in this pool and then I had to tell everyone that I would be using this pool and not theirs. Sorry for the confusing analogy. It makes sense in my head.
| Quote: | | everyone who's complaining about the dating scene should definitely move here - london. the only chance of not getting laid around here is if you don't want to. |
As a sidebar note, I come in contact with several English folk every day, since the place where I work is host to Virgin Atlantic crews. From what I've heard, it's quite a party.... not a lot of lesbians, though. At least not on the crews. -_- pity.. I've a thing for accents.
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yuna
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| Kaledio_Ruby wrote: | | From what I've heard, it's quite a party.... not a lot of lesbians, though. At least not on the crews. -_- pity.. I've a thing for accents. |
lots of lesbians in the city, though. and hot ones too.
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Frances
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| yuna wrote: | | Kaledio_Ruby wrote: | | From what I've heard, it's quite a party.... not a lot of lesbians, though. At least not on the crews. -_- pity.. I've a thing for accents. |
lots of lesbians in the city, though. and hot ones too. |
*books first flight to London leaving Oz*
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nekotine
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| yuna wrote: | | everyone who's complaining about the dating scene should definitely move here - london. the only chance of not getting laid around here is if you don't want to. |
LOL oh man, i have a friend that keeps telling me that i just need to 'get laid' but bleh...for me, the idea of sex without any sort of emotional attachment seems so...shallow and simpleminded. more power to the people who do do the swinging thing and feel comfortable with it, it's just not my thing. heck, i'm not even into poly and usually there's emotion involved with that. i'm just a single loving type of lady. :3
anyways, umm...i dunno, while it does suck being single, especially when it seems like everyone around you is either partnered up, MARRIED or even MARRIED with CHILDREN, i try not to just throw myself into the dating scene with reckless abandon. it's tempting at times because i just feel so lonely but at the same time, i want a relationship that's true. personally, i've been trying hard to find someone local because i've been burned by the LD thing so bad recently but even being in the SF bay area and the whole 'being Out is okay and cool!', i've yet to find anyone i really can connect with.
and of course, there's the whole confidence thing of me being in my late 20s, still living with the 'rents, still working a retail job and still trying to finish up school, and wondering if anyone would want to go for that, not to mention my love for gaming and other 'childish' hobbies as anime/manga and comics. i hardly look like a 'grown up' with my closet full of jeans/shorts, threadless/concert/g33k related t-shirts and various sneakers.
of course, i don't really feel like i could/should/would reinvent myself just to land a girlfriend, especially since a majority of my friends are g33ks of varying natures and most have managed to find someone to match them just fine. not to say i'm not trying to grow up and leave the nest at all either. i definitely WANT to finish up school so i can have a CAREER to have enough money to live on my own in Califonia (because gosh dang do i love it here and don't want to move away if i don't have to) and get move out of my parents' place but it seems like any time i start to make enough money to start saving up for all of that, Life(tm) throws in another one of those Character Building Trials(tm) that puts my bank account back in the red, such as my CAR breaking down beyond repair. ARGH! DX
i don't know, maybe we just make it too difficult for ourselves thinking we have to live up to any sort of expectation of the type of people we want to be with. or that we should have any expectations beyond them being a good and honest person as well. :/
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smaggot08
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Too many expectations, huh.....that...may be true. In truth, the true happiness behind the relationship is really the love of companionship rather than "love" itself. It seems women in particular strive to have this kind of ultimate companionship.
Ack, poor nekotine. Many many others share your luck, trust me. XD Arrrg.
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acro_circus
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| smaggot08 wrote: | | Too many expectations, huh.....that...may be true. In truth, the true happiness behind the relationship is really the love of companionship rather than "love" itself. It seems women in particular strive to have this kind of ultimate companionship. |
Lol, heck no, I'd rather be alone then not in love 
If I want a companion I'll get a puppy :X
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I Vitality I
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All of you have really good points.I too don't mind the loneliness, but after a while it starts to get to you. I live by myself in my apartment, and I find it hard to keep busy. I have a blockbuster.com account, so I find myself at the store getting new movies every weekend.
I work Monday through Friday from morning till about 5ish and I come home, watch T.V, read, or play x-box. I pretty much see a new movie every Friday...even twice sometime...just to get out of my apartment.
Sometimes it is good to be alone..but as smagott said..we need a companion..someone to talk too, Lately I have been listening to a lot of music to fill the void of being alone..as some are the story of my life..LOL..
a puppy..aweee..
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Katin
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| Kaledio_Ruby wrote: | Don't feel too bad. I live in California for god's sakes. And I work in bloody San Francisco with 5 other lesbians on my staff.... and I've been single for several years now with no prospects.
I even hosted a lesbian panel at Fanime 2008 and mentioned being single and I didn't get a single offer for a date. =/
But anyhow, it's getting harder and harder to meet women. Most people I know hook up through friends or co-workers. The online dating scene has kind of died over the last 4 years and the once widely used gay singles sites, Gay.com and Planetout.com have dried up. OMG, I'm going on about this like we're in a bloody draught! It's a lesbian famine! Ha ha ha!!
I say, keep trying whatever you think might get you there. For everytime you get turned away, just say, "Well, damn... at least I tried, right?" |
most of the lesbians i know are now socializing through myspace. for serious!
for some reason, there are a load of lesbians in denver but they only come out for pride. it's weird. the ones i do see out and about are already ones i know *cough*dated/slept with my friends*cough* and therefore and am not much interested in.
i think we should have a big lesbo party....we can hang out and watch heathers and drink cocktails...or whatever.
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I Vitality I
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| Katin wrote: |
i think we should have a big lesbo party....we can hang out and watch heathers and drink cocktails...or whatever. |
that would be cool..just hang out chill..
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Katin
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| I Vitality I wrote: | | Katin wrote: |
i think we should have a big lesbo party....we can hang out and watch heathers and drink cocktails...or whatever. |
that would be cool..just hang out chill.. |
one of my favorite things to do!
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Babycha
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| I Vitality I wrote: | | I have a blockbuster.com account, so I find myself at the store getting new movies every weekend. |
Whooo shout out to Blockbuster!!
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I Vitality I
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I know I love my account..and now that I can download movies...EVEN better!
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yuna
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| Katin wrote: | | I Vitality I wrote: | | Katin wrote: |
i think we should have a big lesbo party....we can hang out and watch heathers and drink cocktails...or whatever. |
that would be cool..just hang out chill.. |
one of my favorite things to do! |
lesbo parties = awesome
lesbo weekends = drama
there's only so much time a bunch of lesbians can be at the same time without it ending in drama.
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I Vitality I
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| yuna wrote: | | Katin wrote: | | I Vitality I wrote: | | Katin wrote: |
i think we should have a big lesbo party....we can hang out and watch heathers and drink cocktails...or whatever. |
that would be cool..just hang out chill.. |
one of my favorite things to do! |
lesbo parties = awesome
lesbo weekends = drama
there's only so much time a bunch of lesbians can be at the same time without it ending in drama. |
Touche-- you do have a point...I try to stay away from Drama-rama,,,
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yuna
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| I Vitality I wrote: | | yuna wrote: | | Katin wrote: | | I Vitality I wrote: | | Katin wrote: |
i think we should have a big lesbo party....we can hang out and watch heathers and drink cocktails...or whatever. |
that would be cool..just hang out chill.. |
one of my favorite things to do! |
lesbo parties = awesome
lesbo weekends = drama
there's only so much time a bunch of lesbians can be at the same time without it ending in drama. |
Touche-- you do have a point...I try to stay away from Drama-rama,,, |
don't we all? apart from the ones who enjoy *spreading* the drama i suppose. oh how i despise those.
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I Vitality I
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totally..I know what you mean!
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Katin
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ok, rule for lesbo party.
spread drama = kicked out?
the drama can be spread elsewhere.
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tenshots26
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| Katin wrote: | ok, rule for lesbo party.
spread drama = kicked out?
the drama can be spread elsewhere. |
I like drama. I should have a mud wrestling ring outside the house. For incase if someone wants to fight it out do it in the mud pit. Pure hotness.
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Katin
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| tenshots26 wrote: | | Katin wrote: | ok, rule for lesbo party.
spread drama = kicked out?
the drama can be spread elsewhere. |
I like drama. I should have a mud wrestling ring outside the house. For incase if someone wants to fight it out do it in the mud pit. Pure hotness. |
hrm, i don't know how i feel about mud...maybe jell-o instead?
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Babycha
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| yuna wrote: | lesbo parties = awesome
lesbo weekends = drama
there's only so much time a bunch of lesbians can be at the same time without it ending in drama. |
You said it all.
| I Vitality I wrote: |
Touche-- you do have a point...I try to stay away from Drama-rama,,, |
What's wrong with drama-rama, huh??
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Pescean
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| yuna wrote: |
lesbo parties = awesome
lesbo weekends = drama
there's only so much time a bunch of lesbians can be at the same time without it ending in drama. |
LMAO! Words of wisdom.
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Pescean
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| Katin wrote: | | tenshots26 wrote: | | Katin wrote: | ok, rule for lesbo party.
spread drama = kicked out?
the drama can be spread elsewhere. |
I like drama. I should have a mud wrestling ring outside the house. For incase if someone wants to fight it out do it in the mud pit. Pure hotness. |
hrm, i don't know how i feel about mud...maybe jell-o instead? |
No, it can only be mud. There has to be rocks available so one of the chicks can bash the other chick in the face when her STAR POWER bar is full. What's jello gonna do? It's too messy.
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Katin
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| Pescean wrote: | | Katin wrote: | | tenshots26 wrote: | | Katin wrote: | ok, rule for lesbo party.
spread drama = kicked out?
the drama can be spread elsewhere. |
I like drama. I should have a mud wrestling ring outside the house. For incase if someone wants to fight it out do it in the mud pit. Pure hotness. |
hrm, i don't know how i feel about mud...maybe jell-o instead? |
No, it can only be mud. There has to be rocks available so one of the chicks can bash the other chick in the face when her STAR POWER bar is full. What's jello gonna do? It's too messy. |
weak...i prefer jell-o. but if you're going to be the one fighting, then you can have mud. i shall watch from the sidelines and yell 'KICK HER ASS!!!'
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Vickie
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| Katin wrote: | | weak...i prefer jell-o. but if you're going to be the one fighting, then you can have mud. i shall watch from the sidelines and yell 'KICK HER ASS!!!' |
Grope her ass?
Ooops sorry.
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Babycha
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Internet dating? how silly.
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tenshots26
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Re: Desperate times call for desperate measures... | Light.Shard wrote: | ~.~;; It's VERY difficult to find a nice girl in the midwest. Most of them are Jesus freaks and already have children. The teen pregnancy rate in this county is higher than Chicago's.
So I've tried internet dating before- at least three times. Well, all of them ended in massive failure (one decided to be straight, one became a creepy stalker that would skip school just to find out if I was in the shower, and the other was a soulless drone that was only after my male roommate). Not to mention, I hardly had anything in common with ANY of them... But despite recent failures I'm willing to try again.
=P So IF anyone is interested in a fairly perverted 19 year old blonde, short, loves Pokemon, RPGs, maid/nurse costumes, cuddling, and just about anything that doesn't involve men, please respond. |
LMAO!!!!!
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Babycha
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Re: Desperate times call for desperate measures... | Light.Shard wrote: | | So IF anyone is interested in a fairly perverted 19 year old blonde, short, loves Pokemon, RPGs, maid/nurse costumes, cuddling, and just about anything that doesn't involve men, please respond. |
I'll send a PM right away.
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tenshots26
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Re: Desperate times call for desperate measures... | Babycha wrote: | | Light.Shard wrote: | | So IF anyone is interested in a fairly perverted 19 year old blonde, short, loves Pokemon, RPGs, maid/nurse costumes, cuddling, and just about anything that doesn't involve men, please respond. |
I'll send a PM right away. |
OOOOH, i MUST Have missed this thread. Damn. I am sending my PM'S RIGHT AWAY.
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Babycha
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Re: Desperate times call for desperate measures... | tenshots26 wrote: | | Babycha wrote: | | Light.Shard wrote: | | So IF anyone is interested in a fairly perverted 19 year old blonde, short, loves Pokemon, RPGs, maid/nurse costumes, cuddling, and just about anything that doesn't involve men, please respond. |
I'll send a PM right away. |
OOOOH, i MUST Have missed this thread. Damn. I am sending my PM'S RIGHT AWAY. |
Light Shard's mine, so... send you PMs somewhere else.
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tenshots26
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I wan't her. I like blondes. I soooo love them. MmMm.
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Babycha
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| tenshots26 wrote: | | I wan't her. I like blondes. I soooo love them. MmMm. |
I love perverts!
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tenshots26
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| Babycha wrote: | | tenshots26 wrote: | | I wan't her. I like blondes. I soooo love them. MmMm. |
I love perverts! |
Perv-Fect.
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Babycha
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| tenshots26 wrote: | | Babycha wrote: | | tenshots26 wrote: | | I wan't her. I like blondes. I soooo love them. MmMm. |
I love perverts! |
I picked up a yummy blonde off the streets last night . |
How brave of you to share that with us, tenshots26
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tenshots26
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| Babycha wrote: | | tenshots26 wrote: | | Babycha wrote: | | tenshots26 wrote: | | I wan't her. I like blondes. I soooo love them. MmMm. |
I love perverts! |
I picked up a yummy blonde off the streets last night . |
How brave of you to share stds that with us, tenshots26 |
What? I so wasn't aware that she was a fake blonde.
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Babycha
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| tenshots26 wrote: | | Babycha wrote: | | tenshots26 wrote: | | Babycha wrote: | | tenshots26 wrote: | | I wan't her. I like blondes. I soooo love them. MmMm. |
I love perverts! |
I picked up a yummy blonde off the streets last night . |
How brave of you to share stds that with us, tenshots26 |
What? I so wasn't aware that she was a fake blonde. |
I think fake blondes are hot. Something about being daring and out-there by dying your hair is hot!
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yuna
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| Babycha wrote: |
I think fake blondes are hot. Something about being daring and out-there by dying your hair is hot! |
i used to think that too, until i've had a girlfriend who dyed her hair white blond to look like deborah harry. no matter how much hair product she put on, it always smelt like hair dye. since then i've been dating natural blondes. lesson learned.
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Pescean
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| yuna wrote: | | Babycha wrote: |
I think fake blondes are hot. Something about being daring and out-there by dying your hair is hot! |
i used to think that too, until i've had a girlfriend who dyed her hair white blond to look like deborah harry. no matter how much hair product she put on, it always smelt like hair dye. since then i've been dating natural blondes. lesson learned. |
Somehow you manage to get the post back on topic!
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I Vitality I
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A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!
and
LMAO
8D
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Babycha
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| I Vitality I wrote: | A-M-A-Z-I-N-G!!
and
LMAO
8D |
"Amazing" would be you eating a Lean Pocket
| Pescean wrote: | | Somehow you manage to get the post back on topic! |
Yeah, Yuna's awesome
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nekotine
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| Katin wrote: | | i think we should have a big lesbo party....we can hang out and watch heathers and drink cocktails...or whatever. |
you and your Heathers dvd...that thing must get around. :3
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