How do you know a girl has the les/bi "vibe" ?

Meeks · How do you know a girl has the les/bi "vibe" ?

is there any way you can know a girl who has that vibe? what ways you know the girl is interested in us women? I've been wondering about some of my friends who might give a vibe. but I'm not sure..

so what signs you consider the "vibe?"

I will post mine soon XD; sorta busy

Tudana

hmm..a vibe is normally comfirmed in the wee morning hours after a long evening of watching movies Wink

Seriously though, from my experience, trying to find a vibe amonst my non or unknown gay friends was never a good thing to do, especially if dirnking is involved, lots of heart ache and hurt feelings can come of it. Best to go to known hang outs and places of gatheirng to be among those that will respond openly. Start at the local city Softball fields, lots of gay gurls out there and they all gather after games!

grillnaz

same with indoor soccer, kickball, dodgeball a lot of girls around there get on a social team

alottafuhgina

I think the "vibe" is easiest to confirm when watching how a girl looks at other girls...how long eye contact is held, the look in her eyes, etc.

NightSky

I do agree that eyes have a lot to do with it. You just pick up on the subtleties of their reactions to you or other women around them. I've noticed girls give too long of a stare at me or something on me if you know what I mean. lol The sucky part is they don't know that you know, and it's probably best to just keep them as friends anyways. If they're really interested in you, they will most likely say or do something to let you know purposefully (if you're out and they know it that is). You could always let them know you're interested but that could backfire, so choose your moves wisely my friend. Wink

Sugar Rune

I usually just like, go for it! If I dive in and she's into it, righteoous! But like, if she's not into it she'll usually think I'm cool for going for it anyway Wink

Yvonne

Maybe there are some signs that could help you in knowing wheter a girl is potentially interested in other girls. However it is not something you can really rely on. What matters most is the overall feeling you get from that person. If you want someone to be interested you rather quickly project things and are more likely to pick up any signs that would point in that direction.

I think that this vibe can best be described a certain air a person has. Girls who are potentially interested in other girls tend to be more deep and sort of mysterious, more shy. At least that is my experience. You can also see it in the way they look at others, just pay attention to what kind of person makes someone shy, cause that is the kind of person they will fall in love with.

Smoogles

Someone once answered this question in a way I found funny, so I thought I'd repost it here.

If you sit on her face and her tongue pops out then you know.

It's just it was the other way around: How do you know if you're gay or not? And it was: If she sits on your face and your tongue pops out...

Babycha

NightSky

veggiespork

I don't care unless they flirt with me, and then I know. xD

acro_circus

Hahahha softball and soccer, I think this is funny bc I'm a part of both soccer and softball lesbian leagues, so I guess it's good advice!

But ya, I'm not good at getting the vibes either, I just kind of just see where it goes depending on the person.

Pyroclasm

I can usually tell when they start eying other girls in there surroundings. Kinda if they look up and down at a girl? Not sure how to explain it because I know straight girls do that too. Usually you just have to wait until they flirt with you lmao.

lacrossegirlie

i also think where your at can factor in, mostly because im finding back home in utah i had amazing gaydar just by looking at the signs but, being out here in cali its much harder, what i mean its been my experiance that in some places theres a strnger umm each gender looks a certain way dresses a certain way even if you w/in a different group? theres always exceptions of course, hmm i hope that makes sense