Archive for Lesbian Gamers .com The Forum Lesbian Gamers Forum - Video Game Talk by Girls Who Like Girls Who Like Games          Lesbian Gamers .com The Forum Forum Index -> Lesbians Livin Large & Weekly Whine dellybaby Masterbation Do you masterbate over men or women? Or both? nekotine how can you ask a question like that and expect people to answer if you have not provided one yourself? ;3 dellybaby Now theres a point I guess... I do both And feel really guilty Damn I wish I could just do it over women lol silwlf55 meh, don't feel bad, i mastribate to both men and women too. however i do find that i usually put more details in my fantasies about women than i do with men. according to a study both gay and straight women react to sexual images with women/women pairings, men/men, and women/men so i figure that for women, attraction goes a bit deeper than what turns us on (not that it doesn't do so for men as well...it's just different i guess). Colvin As I'm a lesbian I don't find anything sexual in images of men. Sure they can be good looking and attractive like say Brad Pitt and I can appreciate their beauty, but I don't want to sleep with him or imagine I am, I'd prefer his wife ;o) So women for me obviously, all the way.   katiedid Although I am bi, and am into boys in real life, I only ever masterbate to girls. Weird eh? I just don't find boys sexually exciting unless they're there in front of me. Taija Both, since I'm bi. Although, for some reason, I always think about either two guys or two girls, never a guy and a girl together. Gunbladegirl Usually two guys cos yaoi = hot.   And because I can't imagine myself ever getting laid haha so I can exclude myself entirely.  Though I reckon most people can just egt off to any sexy stuff, cos its just about orgasms really and anyone can have those male or female!  So I don't beat myself up for finding two guys hot. amccrazgrl two guys together is hot in a weird way. i prefer to watch girls or videos that show eating out. katiedid I'm not exactly sure what i mean by this, cuz its a rather abstract concept, but the porn i really get off on is when its obvious that the 2 girls involved are in love, or care about eachother deeply. Thats the sexiest. Am I weird? narukoyuri I don't think you're weird   As for the topic, the thought of guys sexually makes me feel queasy so I try to avoid it. But women are hot. Women getting sexy together, even more hot. ^_^ amccrazgrl katiedid wrote: I'm not exactly sure what i mean by this, cuz its a rather abstract concept, but the porn i really get off on is when its obvious that the 2 girls involved are in love, or care about eachother deeply. Thats the sexiest. Am I weird? I totally agree.....I hate fake lesbians in porn!!!!! Catou I agree also, notice weird about no being into fake lesbians.  Thats the kind I'm into also. I into guys and girls when I fantasize even though I prefer women in real life. Frances Not weird at all! I'm exactly the same. Two fake lesbians..yawn, theres just no chemistry so it doesnt do it for me at all. Sensual is way hotter! I get the guy on guy thing as well, glad its not just me ;p Sami I masturbate to both male/male and female/female, but I don't like straight porn. (ew!) And I hate fake lesbians too. As far as my unconscious is concerned, I always have sexual dreams about myself and another woman, never about myself with a man. Taija Sami wrote: I masturbate to both male/male and female/female, but I don't like straight porn. (ew!) And I hate fake lesbians too. As far as my unconscious is concerned, I always have sexual dreams about myself and another woman, never about myself with a man. I'm exactly the same. Vickie I masturbate to porn with real orgasms... and more often than not that means porn with sex toys or men. It's just not fair that men's orgasms are more obvious than women's. I don't particularly like male/male, though. I ALSO HATE FAKE LESBIAN PORNS! THEY SHOULD MAKE THAT ILLEGAL! CAPSLOCK! vou I don't masturbate, well not since I took a self-imposed vow of celibacy in november 2006! lol Rynnbow I've never seen lesbian porn where the women aren't completely fake and obviously not gay so I generally avoid it.. although I'm totally open to quality porn suggestions lol Some of my guyfriends brought me to a strip club and it was such a horrible experience. I wanted to look at the girls but I could tell they were not comfortable with it so it made me feel like such a perv :sigh: guess I'm sticking to my imagination.   omg vou you took a vow of celibacy AND no masturbation?! You have got some crazy strong willpower! Vickie vou, wh... why? But there are all sorts of health benefits to masturbation... vou Rynnbow wrote: omg vou you took a vow of celibacy AND no masturbation?! You have got some crazy strong willpower! Vickie wrote: vou, wh... why? But there are all sorts of health benefits to masturbation... Lol its a long story but the short version is that I needed it. Funny thing is I've kept to it for this long yet I cannot stop smoking. Oh well it does get to me sometimes but i get over it. I think thats why i'm going crazy without my 360, no finger action   Sami O.o No masturbation? I hope you have a gf then! ^^ Caylin Straight porn, sometimes, but usually girl on girl, esp trans on trans.   MiradoBwarrior Sami wrote: O.o No masturbation? I hope you have a gf then! ^^ LOL wow theres nothing wrong with masterbating, there really isnt. its very very natural have u noticed animals? they have orgasms and everything. that goes as well as being gay. animals APPEAR to be straight so they can continue the population...but if they had a choice im sure they'd go gay lol most of the human pop thinks being gay is "wrong" or "unnatural" its the opposite.......as for i actually sometimes look for fake lez porn cuz i can sit there and laugh like an idiot lol especially yuri, the fake yuri is THE funniest i think..but seriously i prefer the "real" stuff. but i can really care less if i get laid...(ever get laid hell ill be lucky to even find a gf..lol) Vickie MiradoBwarrior wrote: animals APPEAR to be straight so they can continue the population...but if they had a choice im sure they'd go gay lol most of the human pop thinks being gay is "wrong" or "unnatural" its the opposite....... A lot of animals have sex with whoever they want to do it with, and stay with whoever they feel comfortable with. We only see the "straight" animals because National Geographic or Discovery Channel don't always show the entire truth. Yay, not writing paper, no need to cite my reference. xD acro_circus Vickie wrote: MiradoBwarrior wrote: animals APPEAR to be straight so they can continue the population...but if they had a choice im sure they'd go gay lol most of the human pop thinks being gay is "wrong" or "unnatural" its the opposite....... A lot of animals have sex with whoever they want to do it with, and stay with whoever they feel comfortable with. We only see the "straight" animals because National Geographic or Discovery Channel don't always show the entire truth. Yay, not writing paper, no need to cite my reference. xD Yeah, I heard about that somewhere too, how most species have some sort of gay behavior but only humans discriminate against it. MiradoBwarrior YES ^^ precicly my point! hmph and they say im making it up! lol maylith hmmm As a lesbian nearing her mid 40's, and in a long term relationship, masturbation is rare these days but known to happen on occasion.  For me, its always been girl/girl images or video.   Having first seen porn in the 80's you need to believe that girl/girl porn is better these days than in the past.  You just have to find the good stuff.  I've seen little, even today, from the bigger porn studios thats worth watching.  However there are some smaller studios like Girlfriend Films that are actually owned by lesbians.  Not all of their stuff is great, but it is interesting.  Another one is Viv Thomas....most of his girl/girl is pretty good, although he does do some scenes that would probably appeal more to male viewers. On the web, I would have to go with sapphicerotica.com.  or abbywinters.com.  Both are hit and miss, and commonly available on torrent sites.  both have women who seem to enjoy their work, although some are clearly gay for pay....you have to search for the good ones.... Vickie Re: hmmm maylith wrote: On the web, I would have to go with sapphicerotica.com.  or abbywinters.com. I used to watch them, too; now I prefer home-made porn (youporn.com). Then again I don't always watch girl/girl. acro_circus Re: hmmm Vickie wrote: maylith wrote: On the web, I would have to go with sapphicerotica.com.  or abbywinters.com. I used to watch them, too; now I prefer home-made porn (youporn.com). Then again I don't always watch girl/girl. *googles* ^^;; funiai Have you got any idea how frustrating it is to want to, but to quite literally be missing the necessary parts? o___o If it weren't for tae kwon do, I probably would've killed myself already.  Seriously. -_-;  Got to have -some- kind of output, meh. MiradoBwarrior LOL yeah i can understand not having an output....i had 3 outputs, fighting, drawing and and (obviously) GAMEING^^ but now its down to gaming and drawing..my partents dont want me to fight anymore*sob* funiai MiradoBwarrior wrote: LOL yeah i can understand not having an output....i had 3 outputs, fighting, drawing and and (obviously) GAMEING^^ but now its down to gaming and drawing..my partents dont want me to fight anymore*sob* Thanks to this vile curse of a frame, the only way I can offset desire is to exhaust myself. -_-;  I usually end up gaming after I've worn myself out, as a way to redirect the energies I can't make use of. All of my fighting is sanctioned (spars) and my parents haven't had anything to do with me, so I can keep up with anything I like. =D  At least I'm lucky in that respect, I guess. MiradoBwarrior ugh id do anything to punch something...anything! sooooo many ppl in my skool piss me off soooooooo much >.< *sigh* MiradoBwarrior Re: hmmm maylith wrote: On the web, I would have to go with sapphicerotica.com.  or abbywinters.com.  Both are hit and miss, and commonly available on torrent sites.  both have women who seem to enjoy their work, although some are clearly gay for pay....you have to search for the good ones.... ........THE GOGGLES THEY DO NOTHING!!! eh heh....nice site acro_circus Re: hmmm MiradoBwarrior wrote: maylith wrote: On the web, I would have to go with sapphicerotica.com.  or abbywinters.com.  Both are hit and miss, and commonly available on torrent sites.  both have women who seem to enjoy their work, although some are clearly gay for pay....you have to search for the good ones.... ........THE GOGGLES THEY DO NOTHING!!! eh heh....nice site Porn is better when you take off things restricting your vision xD MiradoBwarrior AH HAHAHA that is true lol and its even better if ur not afraid of ur parents coming out of no where and finding ur not straight... acro_circus MiradoBwarrior wrote: AH HAHAHA that is true lol and its even better if ur not afraid of ur parents coming out of no where and finding ur not straight... ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL XD OMG WIN. I think in general parents finding porn is bad xD MiradoBwarrior Y DO U LAUGH AT ME???!!! *sob* lol its is very very bad.....worse if ur entire family is severely traditional and are (sadly) anti-gay/lez/bi/trans etc etc and watever else is "not normal" Sora MiradoBwarrior wrote: Y DO U LAUGH AT ME???!!! *sob* lol its is very very bad.....worse if ur entire family is severely traditional and are (sadly) anti-gay/lez/bi/trans etc etc and watever else is "not normal" T.T yar, anti everything different. acro_circus MiradoBwarrior wrote: Y DO U LAUGH AT ME???!!! *sob* lol its is very very bad.....worse if ur entire family is severely traditional and are (sadly) anti-gay/lez/bi/trans etc etc and watever else is "not normal" Sorry MiradoBwarrior, didn't mean to laugh at you, just the way you said it made me think about the awkwardness of the parent situation ^^;; Like in Another Gay Movie or American Pie (which it parodies). MiradoBwarrior yep...sooner i get otta this house im good..my this is very off topic o_o MiradoBwarrior lol dont worry acro i know i i say it anyway lol yes it is very unpleasent....aye got in trouble once but that was different Sora lol yup way off topic xD still in my house though and will be for a while : / MiradoBwarrior lol i know i will be..but one more year of high school then im out...i think.. Frances Then ya just have to worry about hiding the porn when the folks come to visit :S Lucky for me I live two hrs away from the folks and so they rarely visit, but I do wipe the internet cache when the bro comes over hahahah. Vickie My parents and brother all know I watch porn. We even discuss porn at the dinner table sometimes. Dad also isn't homophobic (he hinted that it's okay for me to get a girlfriend), just Mum. So, I'm lucky here. MiradoBwarrior LOL wow discussing porn at the dinner table never heard that one before xDDD funiai My family used to talk about it all the time.  Personally I found them, to use a word I hate in itself, 'raunchy' and classless.  It always somehow turned into a talk about how straight relationships are so great and how I should think about marriage and kids, blah blah.  Dad got drunk and fights broke out.  That was all. MiradoBwarrior ah..my parents..actually the whole family dont talk about this at all. its kinda against their beliefs. but dad will tell stories on the hospital. like this one guy 21, speeding on a bike lost the back of his skull and both his legs...but he was lucky to be alive O_o Light.Shard Well as for porn, my first encounter with it was digging for Christmas presents under my dad's bed.  Well, you could guess what I found instead.  The more I looked at it (believe me, I couldn't stop) the more I realized that women were MUCH more attractive than men.   But on the more current subject, both of my parents know I'm a lesbian, and my dad just wants me to inform him if I show up in a film or magazine so he doesn't buy it (He hasn't seen me naked since I was a baby and he says he'd like to keep it that way.  Lol) and my mom is just glad she won't have any grandkids to worry about. The only time I've ever found a man attractive is when he crossdresses and manages to pull it off, but women are still preferred.  Especially brunettes.  (I don't know why, but I like taller girls with dark hair.) MiradoBwarrior well to be honest i wasnt very sure what i was till 2 years ago (roughly) and im proud to say i like girls xD but unfourtunately i have to keep this from my family and its straining me very much..Xp TLC DEMON MiradoBwarrior wrote: well to be honest i wasnt very sure what i was till 2 years ago (roughly) and im proud to say i like girls xD but unfourtunately i have to keep this from my family and its straining me very much..Xp i know what you mean my parents almost found out cause of the church they make me go to, the whole church was talking about how im gay. and so 1 person comes up to my mom and tells her. and she of course doesnt believe them and tells them off. so then i was pissed and brought my girlfriend to church and kept my hand on her lap. every now and then i catch a old lady looking at me and i smile and she turns away fast. it is fun. MiradoBwarrior LOL i love freaking homophobics! its sooooo much fun! but sometimes its alittle annoying when they think ur a guy xD dusty I'm new so I just wanted to put my 2 cents in: As far as masturbation goes I can handle a dick every once in a while but I think a mans face just ruins the whole experience. I'm bi and I have a boyfriend so to see another mans face makes me feel like I'm cheating. When it comes to porn. I find that regular porn doesn't do it for me as much any more, unless I can find a good girl/girl one. I prefer porn of the hentai persuasion. Both my parents (my dad more) are very religious. I don't think they would disown me but I get the talk about not being christian enough with out another talk about me liking girls to go with it. luckily I'm 24 (25 in august) and I'm moved out. And with animals and being gay I have a theory. I think that nature, in order to keep the population down, makes animals born gay. Any one who says liking your own sex isn't natural just look at dogs. They are born gay aren't they? And they don't have the societal pressures that everyone puts on gay people like:    Oooo she is just doing it to get attention,        Or    She is just retaliating against her parents. She will stop when she grows up.        Or    As soon as she finds god she will stop this nonsense Dogs don't have those pressures so why are they gay? My answer is, nature does it . And that makes it completely normal. Thanks for letting me rant! FullMetalRissa dusty wrote: And with animals and being gay I have a theory. I think that nature, in order to keep the population down, makes animals born gay. Any one who says liking your own sex isn't natural just look at dogs. They are born gay aren't they? And they don't have the societal pressures that everyone puts on gay people like:    Oooo she is just doing it to get attention,        Or    She is just retaliating against her parents. She will stop when she grows up.        Or    As soon as she finds god she will stop this nonsense Dogs don't have those pressures so why are they gay? My answer is, nature does it . And that makes it completely normal. Thanks for letting me rant! I agree with your theory. 8D Makes sense to me. kittygirl93 Light.Shard wrote: Well as for porn, my first encounter with it was digging for Christmas presents under my dad's bed.  Well, you could guess what I found instead.  The more I looked at it (believe me, I couldn't stop) the more I realized that women were MUCH more attractive than men.   that was like my first look at porn and i guess it was like 2 years ago and just like you i couldn't stop and after a while i found my self materbating every now and again then without knowing my friend who is now my girlfriend was let into the house by my mum found me masterbating to lesbian porn and then she told me it was ok and i found she was lez too so other than her noone knows i'm a lez MiradoBwarrior dusty wrote: And with animals and being gay I have a theory. I think that nature, in order to keep the population down, makes animals born gay. Any one who says liking your own sex isn't natural just look at dogs. They are born gay aren't they? And they don't have the societal pressures that everyone puts on gay people like:    Oooo she is just doing it to get attention,        Or    She is just retaliating against her parents. She will stop when she grows up.        Or    As soon as she finds god she will stop this nonsense Dogs don't have those pressures so why are they gay? My answer is, nature does it . And that makes it completely normal. yup good theory makes sence! Babycha either or. But I do think guys have hotter bodies. Tenko Kitsune Babycha wrote: either or. But I do think guys have hotter bodies. It's the truth. Science has proved that the average body temperature of human males is slightly higher than human females'. Sorry, didn't resist. Babycha Tenko Kitsune wrote: Babycha wrote: either or. But I do think guys have hotter bodies. It's the truth. Science has proved that the average body temperature of human males is slightly higher than human females'. Sorry, didn't resist. hahaha I didn't know that Sora Hahahaha interesting little tidbit you shared =P m0i well..... i guess if i did masturbate it would be to women but i always seem to get help like someone do it for me   Tenko Kitsune Babycha wrote: Tenko Kitsune wrote: Babycha wrote: either or. But I do think guys have hotter bodies. It's the truth. Science has proved that the average body temperature of human males is slightly higher than human females'. Sorry, didn't resist. hahaha I didn't know that And that's why they get all sweaty so easily! XD MiradoBwarrior Tenko Kitsune wrote: Babycha wrote: either or. But I do think guys have hotter bodies. It's the truth. Science has proved that the average body temperature of human males is slightly higher than human females'. Sorry, didn't resist. lol        Lesbian Gamers .com The Forum Forum Index -> Lesbians Livin Large & Weekly Whine Page 1 of 1