
amccrazgrl
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sex toysWho has what kind of toys? Where did you buy online/in public? What do you want thatt you don't have?
Ok My gf is really into the idea of me "strapping" her. I must admit it sounds hot and I'd like to try it. Anyone have experince in this?
What kind strap do you have? What kind harness? Realistic penis looking or purple dildo that doesn't look like a penis
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cupidsslave87
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well...my gf came down here to visit me. and we were getting hot and bothered so we went to fairvilla. that was the first time i had ever been in a sex shop. so i was both amazed and scared of what i saw. she wanted to get a strap-on. so i agreed to it. she wanted to get a realistic looking one. after we had used it....which felt amazing by the way!!!...i started researching different kinds of strap ons. there's vac-u-lock, there's dual harness, vibrating, non vibrating, "ejaculating"(ewww),suction cup, o ring....just too many to mention....soooooooo
heres the website to the place:
http://fairvilla.com/
oh! and you gotta get the hot pink lubricant they have there! it's warming lubricant and it feels great. it feels even better when she blows on it! hehe i feel like such a whore talking about this lol
as for what i want that we don't have...a sex swing!!!!! oh and more hot pink....i vibrating tongue ring....ummm.....edible undies....and that's all i can think of atm.
oh and i must admit...buying it in public does add to the excitement and hotness of it all...def makes you "wetter"
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tenshots26
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*hides*
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Rynnbow
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hehehe aww I didn't think it was possible o make tenshots blush
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amccrazgrl
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what kind of harness do u have?
g=string? jock strap?
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cupidsslave87
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| amccrazgrl wrote: | what kind of harness do u have?
g=string? jock strap? |
i forget the name of it...but this is what we have
http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/powerlock-harness-and-dildo-PH941.htm
according to many reviews...this is the best way to go. it's comfortable and makes it easier to give pleasure
| Rynnbow wrote: | | hehehe aww I didn't think it was possible o make tenshots blush |
haha i didn't think so either when i first started talking to her..but she's such a softie some times. like a teddy bear
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tenshots26
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| cupidsslave87 wrote: | | amccrazgrl wrote: | what kind of harness do u have?
g=string? jock strap? |
i forget the name of it...but this is what we have
http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/powerlock-harness-and-dildo-PH941.htm
according to many reviews...this is the best way to go. it's comfortable and makes it easier to give pleasure
| Rynnbow wrote: | | hehehe aww I didn't think it was possible o make tenshots blush |
haha i didn't think so either when i first started talking to her..but she's such a softie some times. like a teddy bear  |
The harness strap is what we have but the rest look different
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amccrazgrl
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the harness looks good but the strap is too penis looking
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cupidsslave87
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it's totally up to what kind of dildo you want to use. you don't have to use the realistic one. although alot say that v-skin is top quality
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RayneRules
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| amccrazgrl wrote: | | the strap is too penis looking |
LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
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Babycha
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haaa
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alottafuhgina
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Re: sex toys | amccrazgrl wrote: | | What kind strap do you have? What kind harness? Realistic penis looking or purple dildo that doesn't look like a penis |
I have a basic starter harness and an expensive leather one. I abandoned the leather one after 1 try because it slips too much to be functional. Yeah, the thing looks like a real cock, but at least it's purple...lol...and I like Cyberskin. It feels the best out of all the kinds I've tried, very durable too!
I used to be all "anti-" when it comes to toys, especially dildo/strap-ons.
Then I tried it.
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Smoogles
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When I was with my ex, well she bought one, even though we'd agreed we'd buy one together, so it's one we both could enjoy and it would be a good size for us both etc, but whatever. It was a vibrating blue thing, and the strap kept it in place quite well, there was also a little vibrating bullet part that would go in the harness part and stimulate the love button. This was when I found out I wasn't that into penetration, but I think that's because it was such a forced situation, and it was a bit too big for me, so hurt a bit. She had to have it and couldn't wait though. Meh.
I also shake when I'm stimulated correctly, and well, I also found out that it all added to the whole thing with the effing thing vibrating away and then me shaking away while driving it. She loved it, me not so much.
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lacrossegirlie
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| Smoogles wrote: | When I was with my ex, well she bought one, even though we'd agreed we'd buy one together, so it's one we both could enjoy and it would be a good size for us both etc, but whatever. It was a vibrating blue thing, and the strap kept it in place quite well, there was also a little vibrating bullet part that would go in the harness part and stimulate the love button. This was when I found out I wasn't that into penetration, but I think that's because it was such a forced situation, and it was a bit too big for me, so hurt a bit. She had to have it and couldn't wait though. Meh.
I also shake when I'm stimulated correctly, and well, I also found out that it all added to the whole thing with the effing thing vibrating away and then me shaking away while driving it. She loved it, me not so much. |
sounds like you weren't treated that great smoogles! ch that makes me sad cuz your such a softy ha ha (i'm still gunn use the stupid smiley even if it sucks)
my experience has been mixed, i've only been able to use on someone else once and my bodys so crazy sometimes i can, and sometimes i cant, but its weird enough that sometimes fingers hurt. erg, it sucks. as far as dildo's it just been plain slightly phallic shaped dildo's, the ones with vains kinda make me go bleh.
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grillnaz
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| Smoogles wrote: | When I was with my ex, well she bought one, even though we'd agreed we'd buy one together, so it's one we both could enjoy and it would be a good size for us both etc, but whatever. It was a vibrating blue thing, and the strap kept it in place quite well, there was also a little vibrating bullet part that would go in the harness part and stimulate the love button. This was when I found out I wasn't that into penetration, but I think that's because it was such a forced situation, and it was a bit too big for me, so hurt a bit. She had to have it and couldn't wait though. Meh.
I also shake when I'm stimulated correctly, and well, I also found out that it all added to the whole thing with the effing thing vibrating away and then me shaking away while driving it. She loved it, me not so much. |
gosh the person im sleeping with at the moment shakes too when i do anything .. it is so fucking hot. i wish i was that sensitive -_- such a turn on, i just love it keep it going for as long as i can before it seems too repetitive or she
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Smoogles
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| lacrossegirlie wrote: | | Smoogles wrote: | When I was with my ex, well she bought one, even though we'd agreed we'd buy one together, so it's one we both could enjoy and it would be a good size for us both etc, but whatever. It was a vibrating blue thing, and the strap kept it in place quite well, there was also a little vibrating bullet part that would go in the harness part and stimulate the love button. This was when I found out I wasn't that into penetration, but I think that's because it was such a forced situation, and it was a bit too big for me, so hurt a bit. She had to have it and couldn't wait though. Meh.
I also shake when I'm stimulated correctly, and well, I also found out that it all added to the whole thing with the effing thing vibrating away and then me shaking away while driving it. She loved it, me not so much. |
sounds like you weren't treated that great smoogles! ch that makes me sad cuz your such a softy ha ha (i'm still gunn use the stupid smiley even if it sucks)
my experience has been mixed, i've only been able to use on someone else once and my bodys so crazy sometimes i can, and sometimes i cant, but its weird enough that sometimes fingers hurt. erg, it sucks. as far as dildo's it just been plain slightly phallic shaped dildo's, the ones with vains kinda make me go bleh. |
Aww, thanks, lol. And as for that whole thing, well, I loved her, that's all I can really say about that. She was my first love, and only love at the time. And when you're in love, it really does blind a person to the faults of the ones we love. It was all about her and trying to make her as happy as possible as much as I could. Hey, it wasn't a bad deal, I got hugs. It was my first and only relationship though too, and I learned I could really kiss and everything was ok with me in relationship terms after all. Life is a learning experience, and at least I have the knowledge that I'm I'm not a complete mess, and I'm good in a relationship now hey?
| grillnaz wrote: | | Smoogles wrote: | When I was with my ex, well she bought one, even though we'd agreed we'd buy one together, so it's one we both could enjoy and it would be a good size for us both etc, but whatever. It was a vibrating blue thing, and the strap kept it in place quite well, there was also a little vibrating bullet part that would go in the harness part and stimulate the love button. This was when I found out I wasn't that into penetration, but I think that's because it was such a forced situation, and it was a bit too big for me, so hurt a bit. She had to have it and couldn't wait though. Meh.
I also shake when I'm stimulated correctly, and well, I also found out that it all added to the whole thing with the effing thing vibrating away and then me shaking away while driving it. She loved it, me not so much. |
gosh the person im sleeping with at the moment shakes too when i do anything .. it is so fucking hot. i wish i was that sensitive -_- such a turn on, i just love it keep it going for as long as i can before it seems too repetitive or she  |
Lol, well it's kindof good, but I always felt like I was really weird and maybe there was something really wrong with me as I'd never heard of it affecting anyone else before. I seriously wonder if I don't have something wrong with my nervous system sometimes.
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Smoogles
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Aww, I killed it.
I'm sorry.
*walks out of thread, head hung in shame*
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alottafuhgina
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Trust me you didn't kill the thread...lol
(Lesbians in general are a rather sensitive bunch when it comes to talking about toys. I think the subject tried to kill the thread, not you.)
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lacrossegirlie
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its not my fault! i was away from my computre! that and i think a lot of people have the same problem, in the sense we dont want to talk about it because we're worried about being "weird"
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Smoogles
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Yeah, but well, it's good to communicate and share information. Good to be informed, especially in an important aspect like this... isn't it? I know it can be embarrassing, but it's part of what you might need to know, like sexual health threads and such. I know they can be uber embarrassing, but those subjects are really important too.
I seem to have less hang ups and embarrassment, but I think that's just an age thing. As we mature we gain more confidence to talk about stuff like this don't we? I may not have a whole lot of experience in this area outside of the one relationship and many other forums I've contributed to, but I'm willing to share, in a quite open manner, most of what I've learned.
So come ye, to this thread, ask and ye shall receive, though ask not for cake, for it is a lie. XD
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les spartan
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i have been strapping for years now at least 8. been tough at least 7 dildos and the best one is the latest one. my gf of 10 years says it feels like the real thing i would not know. but she would cmoplane about the other hurting. that's y we went tru so many she did not like syber skin ether. well any way its made of silicon and is kinda expansive but totally worth it http://www.stockroom.com/The-Bandit-Silicone-Dildo-P2662.aspx all so tried a lot of harness and prefer the jock styled i prefer buying online wear i can see reviews so i don't wast my money.
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Meeks
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I'm very shy when it comes to sex and such. but with my ex I experienced using a vibrator and I got so weak quickly >_< I've never used a strap on on me, or on someone before ._.
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alottafuhgina
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| Smoogles wrote: | ...I know they can be uber embarrassing, but those subjects are really important too.
I seem to have less hang ups and embarrassment, but I think that's just an age thing. As we mature we gain more confidence to talk about stuff like this don't we?... |
I've never had much issue talking about sex to like-minded individuals. It's only when I'm with my breeder friends that I feel weird talking about it. (If I dare even HINT at a comment about lesbian sex they all start shrieking like banshees whose eardrums are on fire, although take no notice of me curling into the fetal position while they discuss the "pinche hot chorizo" my friend's husband gave her last night. *blech!)
At any rate, I don't think it's necessarily an age thing...that is potentially one influencing factor...but more so it's each individual and their "moral" views, experiences, hang-ups, etc.
I'm rather open about sex and I receive more kudos than criticism for being so open about it, so it's all good to me.
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alottafuhgina
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I've never tried silicone, but I hear they're way easier to clean/maintain & last WAY longer than Cyberskin...
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lacrossegirlie
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i was weird for a long time, and even now its hard for me to talk in a very personal this is what i FEEL or i LIKE. instead of this is what happened or this is "insert clinical sounding stuff here" but i grew up with a mother who showered with the lights off and changed in the closet. my dad watches lots-o porn so it was interesting. i also think people can be ok with "normal" sex and get weirded out when things like BDSM and fetish type stuff comes into to play.
whew that was kinda long
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notwhite
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sex toys? strap-ons? dildos? vibrators? lmao that's asinine. i'm referring to the whole lesbo/'bi' thing that when having sex you use a device/equipment that is based on a guy's genitalia. (i never curse but in this vexing moment-- and i don't get vexed ever -- for i'm very perceptive and well, just plain pedantic) but i will now.. w t f. lmao
no offense but the reason why you're a lesbo/'bi' (for those who don't know, there's no such thing as bi's for they're merely very honry lesbos...thus the quotes) is because you don't want to do anything with men as far as sex is concerned yet almost always when you have sex w/your partner you use an equipment that's based on the male genitalia. moreover, even if you don't use any equipment you may still use something like your finger or fingers or more that would still be a phallus to suck on or lick or w/e. (w/c btw is extremely lame that idk why almost every show/movie that has sex scenes incorporate the slow finger sucking scene ) why not forget everything about using a phallus whether it's an equipment or your finger or w/e and just rub and lick and suck and w/e else to induce orgasm on each other? either you do that or be a hetero female and just have sex with a guy. i mean, what's the point right. you really shouldn't need anything that resembles a guy's genitalia whatsoever.
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alottafuhgina
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| notwhite wrote: | sex toys? strap-ons? dildos? vibrators? lmao that's asinine. i'm referring to the whole lesbo/'bi' thing that when having sex you use a device/equipment that is based on a guy's genitalia. (i never curse but in this vexing moment-- and i don't get vexed ever -- for i'm very perceptive and well, just plain pedantic) but i will now.. w t f. lmao
no offense but the reason why you're a lesbo/'bi' (for those who don't know, there's no such thing as bi's for they're merely very honry lesbos...thus the quotes) is because you don't want to do anything with men as far as sex is concerned yet almost always when you have sex w/your partner you use an equipment that's based on the male genitalia. moreover, even if you don't use any equipment you may still use something like your finger or fingers or more that would still be a phallus to suck on or lick or w/e. (w/c btw is extremely lame that idk why almost every show/movie that has sex scenes incorporate the slow finger sucking scene ) why not forget everything about using a phallus whether it's an equipment or your finger or w/e and just rub and lick and suck and w/e else to induce orgasm on each other? either you do that or be a hetero female and just have sex with a guy. i mean, what's the point right. you really shouldn't need anything that resembles a guy's genitalia whatsoever. |
I never said I didn't like dick. I love dick. I just don't like them on MEN.
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Smoogles
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| notwhite wrote: | | ...that's asinine... |
We could say the same thing about every single post you've made on L.G but that would be a promotion for you, to acknowledge you with any status beyond something very negative that I don't need to make obvious, because it already is to everyone except yourself.
Seriously, why are you still here when your posts are as bereft of anything constructive as they are derogatory and dis-respectful to anyone else here?
You contribute nothing, and that's the only truth your posts carry for anyone other than yourself.
Seriously, here's a bit of advice that will save you wasting server space and all of our time, both ours and yours. Don't post here. It's a simple solution for all involved. You wont have to waste your time expressing something that's so pointless and utterly out of place here, and we wont have to waste our time and energy.
There's the door, Please take it.
I'm only taking the time here to make it more obvious for you how much your posts lack any validity relating to the subject matter, and really aren't constructive in any way what so ever.
So seriously, is it best to leave, or remain in a place where you achieve nothing, and in that same place your posts are viewed as a a completely negative, and derogatory aspect, and also as a completely denigrating influence by everyone else who contributes?
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amccrazgrl
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I think its funny my thread came back to life the weekend my mother is leaving for a week. My gf and I were supposed to order a toy but I'm not ready for it yet.
On the topic of being sensitive....well sometimes all I have to do is rub my P-y against hers and I'll orgasm. Other times it takes awhile.
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amccrazgrl
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Well my gf and I stopped by the Farvilla Orlando house on the way to my moms FL house. Were all set and ready to get strappin....lol
Today is our 2yr 1month also
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