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FallenRose
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 Posted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 3:42 pm Post subject: What do you look for? |
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All this talk of wanting to meet people have me thinking what other lesbians really look for in a person. So, my LG buddies, what do YOU look for in a girl? What "seals the deal" as far as making you more than interested? And what automatically makes you NOT interested?
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Babycha
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They say opposites attract, but I'm looking for someone with similar interests. So a similar music taste or sense of humor are important. It's a huge plus if they're a gamer, comic book/manga fan, or an artist. I can't think of any automatic turn offs at the moment.
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I'm not a party girl at all, I don't drink or smoke (boring, I know) so if a girl like's to go to clubs or bars and such, that wouldn't work for me 
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FallenRose
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| Posted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 4:32 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah, I get ya. =]
I look for similar interests as well but I definately have to say that opposites can attract. I hate drugs, so they definately can't be into that scene. I really don't like heavy drinkers. I like a girl that's smart and wants to eventually go somewhere with her life. Respectful and open minded. Nice and sweet helps too. I definately look for gamer girls but I can settle with someone who at least can bare my geekness and will at least play or watch from time to time. Especially because I game a lot. XD
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nekotine
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| Posted: Sat Nov 07, 2009 11:26 pm Post subject: |
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DEAL MAKERS
I just want to be with someone that WANTS to be with me, LOL!
Honestly though, I like someone that's affectionate. Hugs, cuddles and kisses go a loooooong way with me, especially when it's one that I didn't initiate. I'll take those over a diamonds, expensive cars and what-not any day! I was joking kind of but I think affection is an important part of showing someone that you WANT to be with them! And I'm not talking full on sex. Sex is great and all but I can feel a person's love more so when it's just a sweet kiss.
An appreciation for music and dance. They don't have to like every single artist I like or be Michael Jackson on the dance floor but I do like to take a spin on the dance floor with my loved one. There's just something about losing yourself in the feel of them being that close to you, almost to the point where the rest of the crowd around you fades away. It's kind of like a secret that know one else knows because YOU'RE the only one in that crowd that gets to hold them that close and sway with them and against them...and take them home, LOL. Mmm...and slow dancing... So good...
Geekery is welcomed but not necessarily expected nor needed, so long as they understand that I have my reasons for liking such things and don't try to make me 'grow up/out of it'. It's something that makes me happy and it doesn't harm anyone so...why would you want to take that away from me?
DEAL BREAKERS
Can't be super materialistic. Sure, we all like our shiny's but apart from the essentials (food and shelter), material things should NOT determine how happy you are. Life is too short to waste worrying about who brings the better toy to the sandbox!
Smoking. No cigarettes. Yes, I smoke hookah but 1) it's actually got a pleasant aroma to it and 2) it's more of a social thing to do rather than a HABITUAL one. Cigarettes are soooooo GROSS. Cigars too. Ick.
Drinking. I like me a good night out and I may drink til I get a bit tipsy but I DO NOT do toilet worshiping DRUNK. KNOW YOUR LIMITS. I mean, if it happens on like...New Years or such, fine but if it becomes a weekend habit, GROSS. Why drink so much that you get sick and/or ootherwise miserable?
Drugs. Now I've dabbled. I had all of 3 pills of E during my raving days and really, that was more than enough. I might be tempted to do it as a special occasion thing again but again, its not a HABIT. Weed, meh. Never really got it and don't really see the appeal in it so would rather not have to deal with it. Anything stronger? DEAL BREAKER.
That's all I can think of for now. Might add to it later.[/u]
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Kat_Edw
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LOL wow ur all so picky   joooke. Dont hurt me
Honestly i have no idea what my type is. Im usually an absolute sucker for strong looking girls (mentally i mean i dont have a muscle fetish...i think ) and girls with brown eyes. Id like to say i like girls with the same interests as me but looking back at my previous girlfriends that couldnt be more wrong lol. Every girl ive ever dated seriously for over a year or 2 has been really sporty or into martial arts. and BIG weird here...theyve ALL hated video games . Id say xbox theyd be like  .
They were also a LOT more social than me, ive always been able to count my best friends on one hand. I like small groups but i think of the 3 years i was with my last ex i still didnt meet all her friends. Maybe im one of those opposites attract people or maybe those kinda girls are just attracted to me. I tend to scare away girls who arent stronger or more confident than me since ive always been kinda tall and im an extremely hands-on person. Apparently people get put off by a girl who likes to get things done and doesnt whine about things. Its a gift...or curse i dunno? Yea its deffinately a curse hahaha.
Im very put off by bad habits though. Smoking, excessive drinking and drugs are a HUGE no. I wouldnt even consider a girl if i saw her doing any of those things. Drinking i wouldnt mind at special occasions, but alcoholics are something i avoid like the plague. Dont get me wrong i dont look down at people who do that shit, each to their own. I just can see myself with someone like that.
Im also put off by girls with no honor or morals. Its a simple task to be a good person but so many people fail at it. Why? ill never know.
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GeneralPayn
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| Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 5:30 am Post subject: |
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I've never been in an actual relationship so I don't know what I'd look for in someone but I guess someone that's shy and senstivie that likes to be spoiled (because I like to spoil!) who also likes books and such just liek me. I wouldn't mind if she wasn't really into games as long as she was smart enough to enjoy a good book.
As for turn offs...someone that likes to go out partying and drinking. Smoking's a turn off too. Also, I'd hate a girl that thinks reading if for weirdos. I've actaulyl emt a few girls that called me weird because I like to read 0-o |
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Caelrin
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How is reading weird? It can be really fun, though I dont read nearly as much as I should... >.> I have a big list of stuff I need to catch up on reading, but I doubt I will ever finish it due to how little I read. :/
Anyways, for turn ons/musts:
I need to have someone who is intelligent, I dont think I could ever date anyone who I considered dumb. Also, it is really nice to be able to talk about politics/religion/etc etc etc.
Ideally I would want to date someone who is physically active, sports, martial arts, camping, hiking or what not. I love doing that sort of stuff, but I have never really had anyone to do it with.
And of course, I would love it if they played games, though really I dont think I want to date someone who plays as much as I do. I want someone who gets out of the house and can drag me along with sometimes, as I have a hard time going out to do stuff on my own.
I could not date someone who:
Did not appreciate gaming/nerd culture
Heavy drinker/partier/drug user. I think I am noticing a common trend with this one, that most of us dont want someone who is using drugs which I think is pretty cool! |
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Kat_Edw
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| Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 10:41 am Post subject: |
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Ideally I would want to date someone who is physically active, sports, martial arts, camping, hiking or what not. I love doing that sort of stuff, but I have never really had anyone to do it with.
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Wanna come to my place sometime?  I know exactly what u mean though. I LOVE playing rugby and tennis and going to the gym. I think id have to have a gf like that too. Maybe thats why all my gfs have always been like that. I havent been in a team since high school, but i still enjoy sports...and watching other girls doing sports HIGH 5!
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Meeks
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| Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 3:26 pm Post subject: |
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someone who will love me! ^_^ heh. that's the main thing.
but other than that..just someone who have some interests as me! and to be able to actually chill and be open with. sorta like a friend?
I don't seem to like girls who is all about themselves..and well. pretty much,. is all about "looking good for everyone" like..D: not for herself. but for others? you know? D: person who can't make decisions..
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Rynnbow
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Hmmm I drink and like going out.... I suddenly realize why I am single >.>
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